tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6114695110138446137.post5940549909031421817..comments2012-11-29T21:05:24.949-06:00Comments on Falling Up, Climbing Down: Why smart girls have a hard time understanding boys...Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00893787439525542771noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6114695110138446137.post-46529213250401036372011-05-09T17:26:25.388-05:002011-05-09T17:26:25.388-05:00Thanks for your comment, Liz! I've heard reall...Thanks for your comment, Liz! I've heard really great things about you from Vickie :) I also really appreciate all of your wise insight. It's great to hear from young married women like yourself and you too, Holli!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00893787439525542771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6114695110138446137.post-3401932373009483182011-05-04T08:21:08.687-05:002011-05-04T08:21:08.687-05:00Hi Courtney, I've never met you, but this post...Hi Courtney, I've never met you, but this post title caught my eye on my sister Vickie's blog, so I popped over to check it out. I can certainly empathize with your point of view, even though she thinks I'm old and married by now. Looking back on my single days, what I wish I had been able to do was enjoy each interaction for what it was, rather than trying to read into it so much. I think I would have had a lot more fun and gone through a lot less anxiety if that had been my approach. Because trust me-- when a guy *really* likes you, he will let you know. He won't rely on your ability to interpret all the "signs." And if he can't let you know directly, he's not worth the anxiety! : )Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17440436441434047198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6114695110138446137.post-50629370905450460672011-04-14T08:41:23.242-05:002011-04-14T08:41:23.242-05:00There's also a difference between charmers and...There's also a difference between charmers and flirters. Some people just have a charming personality and one cannot fault them for that. (It took me a while to figure this out -- my husband has a lot of relatives who are charmers and when we were dating, I kept feeling awkward around them because I thought they were flirting. The charm's in their blood!)<br />However, that doesn't make it any easier for the available person on the receiving end, misinterpreting charm as flirtatiousness.Hollihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06682250254989931569noreply@blogger.com